Lalitha Alexander

Lalitha S. Alexander (Asirvatham)

Friday, May 31st, 1935 - Friday, March 27th, 2020
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Lalitha S. Alexander, 84, of Middletown, PA entered into eternal rest on March 27th, 2020 at Penn State Hershey Medical Center. She was the loving wife to Paul M. Alexander.

Lalitha was born on May 31, 1935 in Palayamkotti, Tamil Nadu, India. She was the daughter of the late Thomas and Suguna Asirvatham. Lalitha was a member of the Evangelical United Methodist Church, Middletown. Prior to that she was a member of the Evangelical Free Church of Hershey and Calvary Orthodox Presbyterian Church, Middletown. She was an active member of the Gideons International Women’s Auxiliary and hosted a Family Bible Study Group for over thirty years. She had a long career as a supervisor and retired from the Pennsylvania Department of Transportation.

Lalitha is survived by her husband and three daughters, Punitha S. William and husband Robert, Sugirtha D. Judd, and Vanitha M. Elgart and husband Adam. Two other children, a son Santhakumar and a daughter Geetharani, preceeded her in death. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Prasana, Prema, Preeta, Priya, Alexander, Samantha, Grace, and Hope.

Due to the COVID-19 restrictions, a private funeral will be conducted on April 2, 2020. The family plans to have a Memorial Service which will be scheduled at a later date once the COVID-19 restrictions are lifted. Please continue to check this web site for the date and time for the Memorial Service. Internment will be in Middletown Cemetery, Middletown, PA.

The family has entrusted the care of the Matinchek Funeral Home and Cremation Services Inc. Middletown to handle the funeral arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to “Gideons International” and mailed to the Dauphin South Camp Gideons International, P. O. Box 641, Middletown, PA 17057
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Gloria Clouser

Posted at 10:39pm
Paul and family,

I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of Lalitha. She was such a very nice lady whom I had the pleasure of knowing for a very long time. She was such a sweet and loving lady. She loved the Lord and I know that she is watching over all of us. May she rest in peace. God be with you all in this terrible time in your life. Remember all the good times you had with her.

Gloria Clouser

Posted at 10:46am
Paul and family, I am so very sorry that it took me so long to respond to this.
I am still in shock that she is gone. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all
at this sad time. May God be with you all.

Gloria Clouser

Sargent & Lundy

Posted at 03:04pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Julia Shanthi

Posted at 11:12am
My deepest condolences to u all from julia and family.. will uphold u all in prayers..

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Posted at 08:33am
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